In the quiet of a January night in 2021, Maya Millete — a Filipino-American mother of three, a career woman of quiet strength — disappeared from her home in Chula Vista, California, and was never seen again. Five years of grief, investigation, and legal reckoning culminated in July 2026 when a jury convicted her husband Larry of first-degree murder, guided not by a body or a confession, but by the suffocating accumulation of a man's need to possess what he could not control. Her case stands now as a testament to how thoroughly a life can be documented in its unraveling — and how justice, even
Jury Convicts Larry Millete of First-Degree Murder in Wife Maya's Disappearance
He killed her because she wouldn't stay. Then he hid her so she'd never leave.
Why does a case without a body succeed? What made this one different?
The jury saw a man who couldn't let go. Not just jealousy—systematic erasure of her autonomy. He tracked her money, her messages, her sleep. When that failed, he hired people online to cast spells. That's not passion. That's pathology.
But couldn't she have left? His defense says she did.
Her children were there. She loved them fiercely—everyone who knew her said so. She wouldn't abandon them. And the timing: she scheduled a divorce appointment that afternoon. By evening, she's gone. The coincidence asks too much of belief.
What about the gunshots? The audio was inconclusive.
True. But the neighbor heard something. The children were outside at 10:30 p.m. in the cold. He left at dawn and was gone for eleven hours. Each piece alone might mean nothing. Together, they form a shape.
Do you think he'll ever say what he did?
No. His ego won't allow it. He's already lost control of the narrative. Admitting the truth would be admitting he failed—that she left him anyway, that he couldn't keep her, that all his rituals and messages and surveillance meant nothing.
What haunts you most about this case?
The children. They'll grow up knowing their father killed their mother but never knowing where she is. No grave to visit. No closure. Just absence.
And Maya's family?
Still searching. Still hoping. Still showing up in the desert with volunteers, looking for bones. That's what love looks like when it has nowhere else to go.
The Pulse
- Maya Millete vanished on January 7, 2021 — the same day she filed a divorce intake form — and her husband told her family she had gone hiking and never returned.
- Larry Millete's campaign of control had escalated from tracking her spending and hacking her accounts to hiring internet spellcasters and building a blood altar, revealing a man unraveling as his wife grew beyond his reach.
- A private investigator uncovered patched bullet holes in the bedroom walls, a suspicious early-morning drive in the family Lexus, and audio of loud bangs the night Maya disappeared — painting a damning circumstantial portrait.
- With no body, no confession, and no eyewitness, prosecutors built their case entirely from pattern and detail, and in July 2026 a jury found Larry guilty of first-degree murder.
- Maya's three children now live with her sister, growing up without a grave to visit or a final truth to hold — while her family continues searching the desert east of San Diego for any trace of her remains.
In the quiet of a January night in 2021, Maya Millete — a Filipino-American mother of three, a career woman of quiet strength — disappeared from her home in Chula Vista, California, and was never seen again. Five years of grief, investigation, and legal reckoning culminated in July 2026 when a jury convicted her husband Larry of first-degree murder, guided not by a body or a confession, but by the suffocating accumulation of a man's need to possess what he could not control. Her case stands now as a testament to how thoroughly a life can be documented in its unraveling — and how justice, even when it arrives, cannot always bring the dead home.
Maya Millete came to America from the Philippines as a teenager and built a life of quiet competence — a career at Naval Base San Diego, three children, and a marriage that had begun, by 2020, to come apart at the seams. She was growing into herself, her family said. Her husband Larry could not accept it.
What followed was a methodical campaign of control: Larry tracked her spending, hacked her social media, wrote threatening emails to her employer, forced her to attend church, and played subliminal messages through speakers hidden under her bed. When those tactics failed, he turned to the internet and paid spellcasters five dollars for rituals, building a blood altar from an old photograph and leaving reviews for the practitioners as though rating a delivery service. By December 2020, he was messaging them with a new urgency: punish her, incapacitate her, keep her from leaving.
On January 7, 2021, Maya scheduled an appointment with a divorce attorney. That same day, she stopped responding to her family. When her brother came to check on her, Larry said she was sleeping. When her sister arrived the next morning, the house was cold — air conditioning running in January — and Larry said Maya had gone hiking. She never came back.
A private investigator named Billy Little began piecing together what police had been slow to pursue. He found two holes in the bedroom walls that had been freshly patched — one too high for Maya to have made. Neighbor security footage showed Larry backing the family Lexus into the garage before dawn, then leaving for nearly twelve hours. A neighbor's audio captured loud bangs around 10 p.m. the night Maya disappeared. The children, investigators noted, had been playing outside at 10:30 p.m. on a school night in cold weather.
Police eventually found an arsenal in the home and retrieved GPS data from Larry's car. He was arrested in October 2021, nine months after Maya vanished. The trial that followed rested entirely on circumstantial evidence — the controlling behavior, the spellcasting messages, the suspicious timeline, the patched walls, the long early-morning drive — but it was enough. In July 2026, a jury convicted Larry Millete of first-degree murder.
Maya's three children were placed in the custody of her sister in August 2024. They will grow up knowing their mother was killed but not knowing where she rests. Her family continues to search the desert east of San Diego. Her body has never been found.
On a January evening in 2021, a 39-year-old woman named Maya Millete walked into her home in Chula Vista, California, and never walked out again. Five years later, a jury would find her husband Larry guilty of her murder—even though her body has never been found, even though no one witnessed what happened behind closed doors that night, even though the case rests entirely on the accumulated weight of small, damning details.
Maya had come to America from the Philippines as a teenager, built a career as a contract specialist at Naval Base San Diego, and earned the respect of colleagues who saw in her a sharp mind and quiet confidence. She had three children with Larry, whom she'd married young after they both worked at a fast-food restaurant in Honolulu. By 2020, though, the marriage had begun to fracture. Maya was changing—growing into herself, her family said—and Larry could not accept it. He called her siblings asking them to intervene. He accused her of affairs. He wrote emails to her boss threatening to expose her infidelity. He forced her to attend church, quoting scripture about adulterous women and death. He tracked her spending. He hacked her social media accounts. He installed speakers under her bed that played subliminal messages while she slept: "No more men."
When conventional control failed, Larry turned to the internet and found spellcasters willing to sell him rituals for five dollars. He created a blood altar with an old photograph of them both, threw blood on it, and left reviews for the spellcasters like he was rating an Uber driver. By December 2020, he was desperate enough to send messages to practitioners of witchcraft: "Please punish May and incapacitate her enough so she can't leave the house. It's time to take the gloves off." On January 7, 2021, Maya filled out a divorce intake form and scheduled an appointment with a divorce attorney. That same day, she stopped communicating with her family. When her brother came to check on her, Larry said she was sleeping. When her sister and brother-in-law arrived the next day, the house was cold—the air conditioning running in January—and Larry said Maya had gone hiking. She never came back.
The police response was sluggish, but Maya's family did not wait. A former Navy criminal defense investigator named Billy Little inserted himself into the case and began looking for evidence. Inside the bedroom, he found two holes in the walls and door that had been recently patched. Larry claimed Maya had punched them in anger, but one hole was too high for her to have made. Outside the house, Little obtained security footage from neighbors. One camera captured the voices of the Millete children playing in the yard at 10:30 p.m. on a school night in cold weather. Another showed Larry backing the family Lexus into the garage at 5:58 a.m. the next morning, then leaving at 6:45 a.m. and not returning for nearly eleven and a half hours. A neighbor also provided audio of loud bangs around 10 p.m. that night—sounds Little believed were gunshots. The picture, as he told investigators, was becoming clear: Larry had killed his wife, sent the children outside to dispose of the body, and then driven away to hide it.
When police finally searched the house in January 2021, they found two Glock handguns, a rifle, a shotgun, and an illegal assault weapon. They downloaded images from Larry's phone and retrieved the GPS navigation system from his Lexus. In May 2021, they served him with a gun violence restraining order after finding a photo of their four-year-old son surrounded by weapons. By October 2021, nine months after Maya vanished, they arrested him for her murder. The evidence that emerged was circumstantial but dense: the controlling behavior documented by friends, the spellcasting messages, the suspicious timeline, the patched holes, the early-morning drive. There was no body. There was no confession. There was no eyewitness. But there was a pattern so complete, so suffocating in its detail, that a jury in July 2026 found him guilty of first-degree murder.
Maya's three children were granted to the custody of her sister Maricris in August 2024. They will grow up knowing their mother is dead but not knowing where she is buried, not being able to visit her grave, not having the closure that comes with a funeral. Her colleagues at the naval base, who had watched her rise through the ranks with quiet competence, will never know what happened to her in those final hours. Her family will continue to search the desert lands east of San Diego, hoping to find something—clothing, bones, anything—that might bring her home. And Larry Millete sits in prison, convicted of a murder he maintains he did not commit, his wife's body still missing, the full truth of that January night still locked away somewhere only he knows.
Notable Quotes
His ego was so damaged by the fact his wife didn't want to be with him anymore and he couldn't handle it. So, he killed her.— Billy Little, former Navy criminal defense investigator
Maya loved her kids. There's no way she would have up and left.— Claudia Julao, Maya's colleague and friend